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July 15, 2009

Of Ice Cream & the Heart

Filed under: Uncategorized — theviewfrommykitchenwindow @ 11:58 pm

My neice spent the day with us.  The kids went swimming, played some video games, rode bikes & played in the hammock.  We also ended up playing a card game & started a game of Pictionary.

Pictionary was quite fun.  We must have played it for over an hour.  Dinner brought the game to a screeching halt.  When I got to the kitchen, I was shocked to see that it was 5:41.  My neice needed to be dropped off to her mother at 7.

We ate a really quick dinner & still managed to get an extra half an hour in the pool. 

As it turned out, we didn’t pull out of the garage until 6:59.  Uh oh, we’re late.  The entire drive into town the kids would proclaim the new time by the minute.  “Seven-OH-twoooo.”  In a tone of ‘we’re in trou-uh-buuulll.’  A drum roll followed each proclamation.

Thankfully, the meeting was running late.  So, the boy & the girl started playing monkey-in-the-middle with another child that had been waiting outside for her guardian.  My neice knew the little girl.

The 4 of us (after asking permission) went for ice cream.  I could not leave the little girl behind, while we went off to have fun.  As a child, I remember being left behind & how hurtful those experiences were. 

I never stopped to consider the possible ramifications.  What if we would have been in a car accident?  What if she would have gotten hurt while under my supervision?  That scares me a little.

As it turned out, the only thing that happened was fun.  She was a sweet girl.  We talked about Transformers.  And,  Snakes on a Plane, which I’ve never seen before.  I heard more than enough about that movie from Miss T & my neice.  *shock*

The kids talked about school & gum under the table.  About Hannah Montana and somebody I can’t remember. They had ice cream in their hair & on their shirts and faces by the time we were done.

If the opportunity ever presents itself again, I hope to offer that kindness to a stranger again.  I hope I follow my heart, instead of my head.  I hope that the ‘What ifs’ do not rear their ugly head.

I hope Miss T enjoyed her time with us.

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